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Greetings
A Quick Introduction to Manden Culture
Cultural Importance of Greetings
Cultural Story
Years ago, while in Monrovia, Liberia, I had a French friend. One afternoon at a sidewalk restaurant, a European stranger greeted us. My friend was annoyed, commenting later, "Why would that person greet us since he didn't know us?"
I was surprised someone would be annoyed by a greeting. Later, after spending time in Europe, Asia, and America, I realized greetings can be acts of friendship or invasion of personal space, depending on culture.
Manden Values
In Manden culture, greetings are cornerstone social practices. One is expected to greet first before any activity takes place, even when strangers pass by each other.
It's considered ill-mannered to pass someone without greeting. Visitors to Manden society should greet the host first before engaging in any conversation.
Rules for Greeting
Although greeting rules in Manden culture aren't easily articulated, these patterns are frequently observed:
Before Business
Before transacting any business or friendly exchange, one must first engage in formal or informal greeting, depending on the occasion.
Who Greets First
A person who is approaching or moving while the other is standing still or sitting greets first.
Entering Spaces
A person entering another's domicile or place of business is the one to greet the occupant first.
Extended Greetings
Greeting a friend or relative not seen for a long time can take an hour or more, including asking about family, friends, and sharing memories.
Important Note
The following are common greetings. Be aware that words may vary slightly from locality to locality or group to group, but they are all part of Kangbe (the clear language).